I’m a sucker for a costume drama, especially Jane Austen, although I think they are starting to be done to death. Peaking into a bygone time always gives me food for thought. How life was in those days and different things are now.
Blogging for instance – iPods – the Internet – in fact the whole technology thing. I wonder what they may have made of it all.
But you don’t need to look back centuries to find life so different you’d hardly recognise it. I was listening to Woman’s Hour on my iPod as I walked the bassets today and they were discussing The Women’s Room written by Marilyn French who died recently. It struck me how much things have changed for Women in just my lifetime.
It also struck me that whilst technology has changed the world, it’s probably the place of women in society that has had the biggest impact on the way we live. With education and opportunity we’ve been empowered to do our own thing.
As I walked amongst these eucalyptus trees I was trying to work out whether I classed myself as a feminist.
I’m not a burn your bra type of woman, that would probably be a waste of a good bra.
But in truth I am a feminist believing deeply in equal opportunity for women – but I’d go further that I wish for equality for everyone in the sense that all people should be empowered to make their own choices, to be educated, to be healthy and live in a safe environment. That doesn’t mean that everyone should go off to university and have a life like mine but that as a society we have a responsibility to create the environment and opportunity for people. Having worked in the education, health and social services sector, I know how hard that is to achieve.
These are deep thoughts for the end of the week – that’s what listening to Woman’s Hour does for you!
Back in the real world of Domestic Executive, my thoughts have been closer to how to I get my basset out of trouble. Fortnum decided a walk in some muddy water would be fun till he found himself in deeper than he’d rather and a panic of how to get out. I know I should have been helping him but I couldn’t resist the picture. He wasn’t in any danger just keen to get back on to the boardwalk path.
It was a hopeless feat for a dog with legs only a few inches long. He was never going to be able to swing that back leg up far enough to push himself out. Oh Fortnum you are my favourite stupid muddy big basset.
You don’t need to worry though I put my own life and camera at risk to rescue this mutt. He was not too grateful I don’t think. Especially when I marched him straight back to the fast flowing stream to swim and wash himself off. No harm done. Just another lesson learned – you’d think. Walking back he headed back towards the same spot to do the very same thing.
His shame and shock was soon over and he was back with Mason running around the eucalyptus trees. It’s hard to keep focused on whether I am a feminist when these too are acting like goons. Chasing each other and hassling the park ranger who is always delighted to see them.
But my bassets aren’t totally feral – they did wait for me patiently whilst I mulled over the deep thoughts of the day.
Especially Mason who tends to stay out of trouble whilst creating his own mischief which usually involves avoiding the camera lens altogether. But I caught up with him today.  Little “sumo” basset is on a diet at the moment. Too many chicken necks I fear. Being overweight is a basset trait but we have to be real careful about it as they only have little legs and it can be very bad for their joints and back. He’ll love me for it one day.
In recent weeks I’ve come to notice how isolated my life is. Cocooned in the country in a land thousands of miles from anywhere else. But its not an isolation in a social sense. There is plenty of access to other people, communication is plentiful. I have been thinking though how meaningful it all is and whether I’m making the most of all I have available to me.
The short answer to that is no. No need to elaborate really.
As a true coach I’m now asking myself, “So what am I going to do about it?”
Good question. Now all I need is the answer. Any ideas?
Enjoy life.
That’s a deep thought to be ending your post with. It’s got me thinking and wondering. How much of what we strive for is down to social /media pressure and how much is what is right /good/ needed ? When I’ve got some time I’ll ponder on these thoughts but right now I’m just TOO busy.
Wooosh – you got me thinking on this one! I didn’t respond straight away as my mind was whirling. I guess I’ll simply say it’s great that so many people have more options to follow their hearts desire – but there are still many prejudices for both men and women (and children) in differing areas. I suppose in an ideal world there would be no ‘labels’ and everyone would be free to follow the life their hearts desired, free from prejudice or limitations.
For me, as a woman, I’m living a very traditional role – as the stay at home Mum and home keeper – but I am happy in this role and grateful that I have so many choices and options. I would have loved to have lived in the Victoria age in terms of spending my days painting, reading, playing the piano etc. (supposing I was living in a wealthy family) but would have hated to have been married off for the good of the family – and not being able to earn money in my own right – and therefore being dependent on a marriage with good fortune would have driven me crazy! Thankfully, we have choices in this day and age – but sometimes so many choices can be overwhelming!
I also feel sad that for many people around the world equality is still so much out of their grasp. I have recently read ‘The Freedom Writers Diary’ and this book highlights this situation very clearly – but gives a strong message of hope too. [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Freedom_Writers_Diary].
As for your own personal thoughts – I’m sure you’ll find the answers – for me – the weather at this time of year always turns my head inside out! Best wishes, Sarah x
There is nothing wrong with being isolated, as long as you are happy. Jeez what I would give to be away from people! Ha, seriously though, you are lucky to not be affected by those around you – in a physical and emotional sense.
As for the feminist thing, well I am not a bra burner either but do believe in the right, Mr D gets away with nothing and does just as much as me around the house, I am not happy being a housewife and have no desires to stay this way either!
I love the way you took a photo of Fortnum stuck, thats the type of thing I would do, take a photo first as to savour the moment!
We nearly lost Denver the other day, we went to a different part of the river and as usual he headed off down to have a swim. We shouted and shouted and he didnt come back. His little foot prints headed straight into the water and of course with them being so full he must have misjudged it and was swept away. Talk about panic! I raced up and down that riverside and eventually he popped up way in the distance. Covered in mud, shaking, wet and bleeding from his nose. I honestly thought he was gone for good. Scary.
Looking forward to seeing you next week to catch up – lots of love xx